Oct 11, 2019

How to Make a Russian Man Fall in Love with You

Perhaps you’ve realized the charm of Russian men, or maybe you’ve fallen for one. Now, you are planning ways to attract them and make them fall for you. What do Russian men like? Are there any guides on how to make a Russian man fall in love with you? Well, here it is! This article will tell you just what are the things they like and what captures their heart. However, do take note not to base all of your actions using this article and just act how you think is appropriate.

When looking at Russian men as potential matches, there are a few things you should know. Russian men are slightly easier to impress than Russian women, but they also make much faster judgments about whether or not a woman is right for them – and they can be very dismissive if they decide you’re not the one (and difficult to convince otherwise). Just as is the case for Russian women, there are certain things that Russian men like and even expect from Russian women ​and would like to see the same in a partner who is not from Russia – although they might never admit it.

How to Make a Russian Man Fall in Love with You

Be Attentive
Russian men takes extra care and attention of those they love, as such, it is important to be attentive to them as well. To show your affection towards them and win them over, there are several things you can do. The first one is by making him breakfast. Traditional gender roles are still existent in modern Russia. Women are expected to be good housewives with great ability of cooking. That’s why, Russian men will really appreciate it if you cook them breakfast (although they might not directly show it).

Another attentive thing you can do is cleaning his room. This doesn’t mean that you’re his maid and you should clean up his room all the time. Instead, in situations where his house is a mess and he’s not around, you can clean up his place which will really impress him. You can help him take care of the house when he’s around too. Small things like washing the dishes, making the bed, folding his clothes, will make him happy.

Challenge Him
Russian women can sometimes be headstrong, and while they may complain about it, Russian men like a woman with a strong opinion. So if you have one, don’t be afraid to express it. This doesn’t mean challenging him on everything he says and does of course, but if you disagree with what he’s saying, speak up! Or, if you’re sick of him sitting in front of the TV all day, poke fun at him for it – he’ll find it refreshing and motivate rather than annoying.​


Make Him Breakfast
Yes, almost everything that follows from this point is very gendered, but unfortunately, ​​stereotypical gender roles are still alive and well in Russia. Russian men typically show a slight preference for this, even in small, sometimes almost unnoticeable or unexpected ways. One of these ways is that they will really appreciate if you make them breakfast, especially without being asked.

Clean His Room
This sounds strange, and you shouldn’t do it all the time, but if you find yourself in the situation where you’re in his house without him and it’s a mess, and you want to impress him, you should do a little bit of tidying up. This doesn’t mean going through his stuff, but just doing small things like washing the dishes, putting away the video games scattered all over the floor, making the bed, folding any clothes strewn about the place, and so on. He might not even mention it, or he might act offended, but he will actually be pleasantly surprised.

Let Him Be a Gentleman
Russian men are trained from a young age to be chivalrous, and you shouldn’t fight him too much when he tries to do the same to you. This means letting him pay the bill, letting him carry heavy items (and even ones that you could easily carry yourself), letting him give you his coat when it’s cold, pick the wine, fix stuff around the house, and so on. He’ll appreciate being able to do what he’s used to. This doesn’t mean you have to play an 18th-century damsel in distress, but just allow him to treat you like a lady when he attempts to do so.

Be Traditional
As said in the first point, traditional gender roles are still prevalent in Russia. And so, to charm a Russian man, you’ll need to be the traditional image of a woman. This means no smoking, swearing, guffawing loudly when you’re with them. You are expected to flaunt your feminine side and be attractive. During the date, do not try to be independent and pay for the meal or split the bill. Let the man take the lead and pay for it. This goes for the whole date as well. You have to let the man plan the date, suggest things to do, and many more. Meanwhile, appearance wise, you are discouraged to dress like a man. You should try to wear more feminine outfits to increase your charm.

Dress Tastefully
Russian women can be a bit over-the-top in their style, and Russian men can either love this or hate it. However you choose to dress, most Russian men will appreciate you looking put together. This could mean something as simple as clean jeans and shoes instead of tattered ones with old sneakers. As long as you try to wear high-quality, clean, neat clothes whether they’re simple or outrageous, it will be appreciated. Russian men have a bit of a distaste for messy looks, due to their upbringing, so doing that little bit to look nice will again help him to feel more at ease.

Let Him Lead
Even since a young age, Russian men are educated and trained to be chivalrous. They were raised to be a gentleman, more than men of any other country. As such, do not be surprised if they insist on paying the meal or bringing gifts to the date. From things like carrying heavy items, giving you his coat, to fixing stuff around the house, taking your coat or jacket, and being on the side of traffic when walking. These are all done in the form of respect for women, so do not be offended or feel weak. Let him be a gentleman and he’ll appreciate that he can do what he is used to.

Also, it is worth noting that personal space is not an issue in Russia. That’s why, do not be surprised at the casual touches or kisses. However, if this makes you uncomfortable, it is okay to speak up. He will appreciate it and respect it.
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